Into the Future we march...

Just Another 20 Something Here… Stressing about growing up. So we found out today that another one of our friends is having a baby again! JEEEZZZZ! Its like growing up is just hitting us within a year period! All around me life is growing up. My best friends are all graduating within the next month, which means were really grown-ups now. My brother and cousin got married this year. My other best friend got married and had a baby this year. Another best friend is going to have a baby by the end of the year. I don’t know if can keep up with all this LoL!

Friendships change throughout a lifetime, and I know that for sure (seeing as though I have had some of my friends 20+ years). And now they are all about to change again. I am going from being the party friend to the one you trust babysitting or the one that is the maid of honor or the one who helped me get a job. Its no longer, “meet my friend Blah Blah , she’s the one who got in trouble with me for sneaking into that bar.” Its, “Meet my friend, the I told you that has 2 great kids.” Its just so weird to grow up and watch my friends turn into mature professional adults. =)

I’m so proud of all of them though, these days not many girls can say they have been friends as long as us! When one stage ends in our lives we find a new way to relate to each other. I’m really lucky to have found such great friends at such a young age! And as we all take this next step into the future the one thing that comforts me is the fact that I know, NO MATTER where we go or what we become. We will always be friends! I will always have my friends to call at 2 AM when I don’t know what to do. I will always have my friends to give me advise on how to get gum out my kids hair, or end up getting a ticket and need my lawyer… you know who you are! LoL

So, today I end my blog with simply… Look at the people around you and value their friendships. Think how different your life would have been with out their time in it. Wither your still friends or cant stand each other… just remember how much they have impacted your life!

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff...

Just Another 20 Something here… thinking about over thinking! So today I had a conversation with Mr. Man today. Yesterday he took his final for one of clinics. He got out of class and was HOT! And when I say hot, I mean, irate! So I didn’t push him to divulge any information, knowing that he is not one to push LoL! This morning we finally discussed what he got that made him so irate. He got a 95… a NINTY FUCKING FIVE! And it came to me

Why do we let ourselves get in the way of our dreams? We get so wrapped up it the little things that we start to question ourselves. We question if we are cut out for our dream or if it’s not worth even trying. I did the same thing numerous times in college. I would have skipped a couple of classes and way to much homework to do so I would just drop the class. Ahhh ill retake it next year. Dumb DUMB mistakes! If I had stopped letting myself get in the way of my dream I would have achieved it so much faster.

WHY? I have seen it so much in recent months. Letting the little things get in the way of the big picture. If life was that easy I don’t know if we would even set dreams though. Just a thought for the day, is there anything that you let get in the way? Why do you think we go about things this way?

"I think there's always a risk of overthinking the game, especially when it gets tight." ~Charles Davis